Five stereotypes about men that women need to drop
We live in a society where men are seen as either alphas or poorly stereotyped as omegas if they cannot live up to society’s expectations. Much responsibility is placed on them be it financially, emotionally, physically or intelligence- and society expects them to always be at the top of their game.
Dear women, we must come to the realization that the expectations we place on men are sometimes mere stereotypes. Tall, dark and handsome? Must own things before you commit to him? Must never break emotionally? Well, here are five stereotypes that should be dropped about men and give them a break:
Men are emotionally stones: This stereotype assumes that men should suppress their emotions and never show vulnerability. It’s important to recognize that men, like anyone else, have a wide range of emotions and should feel comfortable expressing them.
Men are always strong and invulnerable: This stereotype puts pressure on men to be physically and emotionally strong at all times. Men can also experience moments of vulnerability and need support and understanding especially in the face of loss and grief.
Men are not nurturing caregivers: This stereotype assumes that men are not as capable or inclined to be nurturing parents or caregivers like women. They are considered as providers. We must acknowledge that men can be loving, nurturing, and actively involved in caregiving roles.
Men are solely focused on career and success: This stereotype suggests that men prioritize their careers above all else and are not interested in or capable of balancing work and personal life. Men, like women, have diverse interests and can have fulfilling lives that encompass various aspects beyond their careers.
Men are not interested in self-care or mental health: This stereotype assumes that men are not concerned with self-care practices or mental health and should always be self-reliant. It’s crucial to recognize that men’s well-being is just as important as women’s, and they can benefit from seeking help, practicing self-care, and prioritizing their mental health.
In dropping these stereotypes about men, we will create a society in which men will thrive, will not fear speaking up about their emotions or suffer depression in silence. There will no longer be calls to empower the boy child in an already patriarchal society that needs to focus much on empowering the girl child.
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