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Sanaipei Tande’s insights on marriage, polygamy and financial independence

Kenyan singer and actress, Sanaipei Tande, has shared her perspectives on marriage, polygamy and financial independence.

In a candid interview with Oga Obinna, Sanaipei shared her thoughts on the importance of having one’s own source of income and maintaining respect within relationships.

Sanaipei spoke of the need for individuals, particularly women, to have jobs and secure their own income. She cited instances where couples separate, leaving one partner struggling to support themselves due to financial dependency.

Stressing the importance of self-sufficiency, she advised individuals to have something of their own, even if their partner assures them of financial care.

“We have seen how many people are splitting and finding themselves in situations where they now can’t cater for themselves, and you must have something for yourself,” Sanaipei said.

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She also acknowledged the uncertainties of the future, raising the question of what would happen if a partner were to pass away unexpectedly, leaving financial matters in disarray.

By encouraging personal financial stability, Sanaipei urged individuals to safeguard their own well-being and independence.

“Even if he tells you that he will take care of you with everything, you never know about tomorrow. What if he dies and things were not in order? What will you do? Let’s face it, Sometimes even the family takes everything from him after he is gone. You must always have something of your own. You can take a both parents must nurture the children equally,” she said.

On whether she would allow her partner to have a second wife, Sanaipei acknowledged that such situations often occur, regardless of permission, and highlighted the emotional complexities involved.

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“Don’t they cheat always? If you allow or not, some will just do,” she said, adding that decisions regarding polygamy depend on the specific dynamics of each relationship and the individuals involved.

Regarding the possibility of dating multiple men, Sanaipei admitted uncertainty, suggesting that it ultimately depends on the depth of love and the unique circumstances of the relationship.

She acknowledged the challenges of sharing a partner, but also recognized that some individuals choose to remain in such arrangements, weighing the pros and cons while considering their own needs and desires.

Sanaipei emphasized the importance of respect within relationships.

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