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Seven key things that will keep your love life alive

Love is a beautiful thing.

Yes, this is true when you get the right person.

Just like a tree is planted and watered, love must also be cultivated.

It is clear in 1st Corinthians 13 verse 4-7 that, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Yes, for you to experience the fullness of your partner, there are several things that the two of you need to do to keep your relationship a flame.

Below are some:

Communication cascade

Communication is a powerful tool in a relationship. As a couple, you should dedicate time each day to share your thoughts, dreams, and even fears.

Whether through heartfelt conversations over a candlelit dinner or sweet notes left for each other, you have to build a bridge of understanding for this is what will bind you together.

Adventurous affection

You have to keep the fire burning between the two of you through adventure. Try new things together. Visit new places together. You don’t have to stick to the routine, it’s always pleasurable to try new things in a new environment.

These shared experiences created lasting memories, and the thrill of discovery kept your hearts connected, injecting excitement into your everyday lives.

Mutual respect

Respect forms the foundation of a healthy relationship. Treating each other with kindness, acknowledging differences, and appreciating individuality contribute to a harmonious and lasting connection.

Affection and intimacy

Physical touch, affectionate gestures, and intimacy play a vital role in keeping the romantic spark alive. These expressions of love reinforce the emotional connection between partners.

Shared goals and values

Couples who align their life goals and values are often more resilient. Having a common vision for the future and shared values creates a sense of unity and purpose in the relationship.


Trust is the bedrock of a strong relationship. Building and maintaining trust involves transparency, reliability, and the belief that both partners have each other’s best interests at heart.

Support during challenges

Facing challenges together and providing support during tough times fosters resilience in a relationship. Knowing that you have a partner who stands by you through thick and thin enhances the sense of security and connection.

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