Thinking outside the box: Surprising ways men can flirt with women
Men are natural hunters. What they hunt is often open to subjection but at the top of the list after money-making opportunities, it tends to be women.
Some men are also stereotypically highly visual when it comes to women and they easily get attracted to the opposite gender.
This is without taking the time to get to know a woman properly before initiating some form of relationship with them- be it casual, friends with benefits, one night stands or long-term ‘situationships’.
At these times, critical thinking checks out of some men’s heads and instant gratification takes the driver’s seat.
But see, women have grown wiser to some degree. They now know how to instantly sniff out men who are simply chasing their skirts for temporary fun; and would rather keep away from them.
Women are no longer naïve because the male template for ‘flirting and capture’ tends to be the same across the land, and some of them have had this template used on them several times.
And because of this ‘awakening’ among women, Nairobi News is now here to give some men out-of-the-box ideas on how they can lightly flirt to show that they like a woman before locking her down:
- We might term this and dismiss it as a Western thing but star gazing can be a strategy for you to patiently flirt with your love interest. Most women no longer go to meet inside a guy’s house so imagine inviting her to outside your house. Her warning bells will ring lower compared to being told “come I cook dinner for you at my place.” The mere fact that this might be the first time you will be doing star gazing- and with her- is one of the easiest flirtation strategies around, but play your cards right. Don’t start Gemini shenanigans too soon to end up crashing and burning yourself out of the game.
- Everyone is cooking these days- from your random mtaa guy to wannabe influencers turned chefs. So playing at cooking for a woman you like is no longer a turn-on. Instead, why don’t you plan a surprise picnic? See, picnics have always been thought to be a preserve of women’s plans but imagine how your love interest will react now knowing that you think outside the box and are not afraid to beat stereotypes? You win before even being admitted entry into the serious leagues with her. Choose unexpected locations for the picnic and add a light touch of romance. We don’t want you accusing her later of simply showing up to eat when you didn’t even attempt to lay your feelings on the picnic mat for her to notice.
- Old is gold so why don’t you take it back to the 80s and 90s when love song playlists were a thing? The digital age and access to everything on streaming sites ruin the experience of some love songs because there are too many to listen to and remember what the last one sings about. So why don’t you create a nice playlist of songs that tell of your feelings for her, show her that the songs remind you of her, and that you want more than just being friends? Please, no Chris Browns and bubbly girls? Thanks in advance.
Do you have any more out of the box flirtation strategies to tell us? Do let us know…