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Why your ex is now trying to get back into your life

By Neema Amani January 10th, 2023 3 min read

It’s 2023, and your ex may have the resolution to woo you back into his sweet embrace.

However, it is important to remember that trying to manipulate someone into returning to a relationship with you is not healthy or advisable.

It is ultimately up to an individual whether or not they want to be in a relationship, and it is important to respect their decision and move on if they do not want to be with you.

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It is also not healthy to rely on another person as the sole source of your happiness or self-worth. It is important to cultivate a sense of self-worth and happiness within yourself.

It is also not helpful to try to make someone feel inferior or boost your ego at someone else’s expense.

Instead, focus on taking care of yourself and finding happiness within yourself.

But we all know, kuna magaidi huko inje who still think they are the rising sun and as such, they should grace your presence.

There can be many reasons a man might consider returning to an ex-partner. Here are a few possible reasons:

Nostalgia: Sometimes, people may return to an ex because they are feeling nostalgiciac and want to relive past experiences or memories.

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Loneliness: If a person is feeling lonely or isolated, they may consider returning to an ex to find companionship and support.

Lack of alternatives: If a person doesn’t feel like they have any other options or prospects for a relationship, they may consider returning to an ex out of desperation.

Regret: If a person regrets breaking up with their ex and wants to give the relationship another chance, they may consider reaching out and trying to reconnect.

They want closure: If your ex is having trouble moving on from the relationship, they may want to return to you to discuss what went wrong and find closure.

They miss the intimacy: If your ex misses the physical intimacy of a relationship, they may consider returning to you for that aspect of the relationship.

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They have grown or changed: It’s possible that your ex has grown or changed as a person since the breakup, and they may want to see if the relationship can work now that they have changed.

It’s important to remember that these are just a few potential reasons, and every individual and situation is different. It is ultimately up to each person to decide if returning to an ex is the right choice for them.

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Suppose ex-partner returns and they have previously hurt you. In that case, it is important to carefully consider whether or not it is a good idea to pursue a relationship with them again.

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Here are a few things to consider:

Reflect on your feelings: Take some time to think about how you feel about your ex and the past relationship. Are you still hurt or angry about what happened? Are you able to forgive them for their actions?

Consider the reasons for the breakup: Think about why you broke up in the first place. Were there fundamental issues in the relationship that led to the breakup? If so, it may be difficult to move past those issues.

Assess whether or not you can trust your ex: If your ex has hurt you in the past, it is important to consider whether or not you can trust them not to hurt you again. Trust is a key component of any healthy relationship.

Communicate openly and honestly: If you decide to pursue a relationship with your ex, it is important to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns. Don’t be afraid to express your boundaries and make it clear what you are and are not willing to accept.

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Ultimately, it is up to you to decide whether or not it is a good idea to pursue a relationship with your ex again. It may be helpful to seek the guidance of a trusted friend or a therapist to help you make this decision.