Ladies, eight things your husband wishes you could do more often
That saying that men are not the best communicators is true. Unlike women, men are not very gifted with speaking out exactly what they are thinking.
There are things that the man in your life wishes you could more often but he hasn’t gotten round to saying them. Here’s a look into some of them;
1. Appreciating him – When a man does something wrong, he is sure that the woman in his life will not keep quiet about it for a while. He wishes she would react with the same enthusiasm when he does something right.
2. Accept help – Women, African women especially, are raised to take the weight of the whole world on their shoulders. Your man wishes that you would let him help you out more often.
3. Initiate sex – Yes, life in a city like Nairobi is terribly busy. Everyone has an endless list of things that need to be done. You need to add initiating sex to your list. Your man would want you to initiate sex some of the time. I am not saying that he wants you to start wearing the pants in the relationship. I am saying that he would also like to feel wanted.
4. Be patient – One thing that your man might not be telling you is that he is trying. He is constantly trying to love you better, to be a better provider and a better man. The one thing he wishes you would do is stop pilling pressure on him and be more patient.
5. Be direct – Women love dropping hints. The man in your life hates it. He wishes every day that you would say exactly what you mean without cutting corners or saying the opposite with the hope that he will understand what you meant.
6. Go out with the girls – Yes, the man in your life wishes that you would go out more. Do not get me wrong. He does enjoy your company. Totally. He also however does not want your life to revolve around his.
7. Be positive – Another thing that the man in your life would want you to know is that positivity is very attractive. If you are constantly negative, in addition to it being unattractive, it drains him. He wishes you would show positivity more often.
8. Leave him alone sometimes – He loves you and he enjoys your company. That said, he also needs to be alone so that he can re-group every so often. He wishes that you would afford him this time without sulking or complaining about it every few days.
