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Entitled generation? Parents link in Gen Zs ‘softness’


It’s no wonder that Gen Z continues to be at the centre of conversations in many social spaces.

With their perceived ‘softness’ at the forefront, we are compelled to look deeper into the roots of this young generation. What lies beneath the surface?

Could it be that Gen Z’s parents are responsible for their soft nature? Gone are the days of strict parenting and rigid conformity. As the world has evolved, so have parenting philosophies. If you grew up as an African child, all your parents had to do was give you a bombastic side-eye and you’d be on your way.

Nowadays, young people feel entitled to do pretty much whatever they want. Gen Z parents are consciously taking a softer approach, rejecting the disciplinary tactics of their own upbringing. They recognise the importance of nurturing their children’s individuality and giving them the freedom to explore their passions and talents.

In the symphony of Gen Z parenting, open communication and emotional well-being are at the centre. Technology, a defining characteristic of Gen Z’s upbringing, plays a significant role in shaping their softness. With unprecedented access to information and virtual connections, Gen Z is exposed to global issues and the diverse struggles of humanity. Social media platforms and online communities have become their windows to the world, cultivating empathy and compassion in them, and these digital connections have empowered Gen Z to become advocates for the causes they believe in. Parents, recognising the power of their children’s voices, actively support and encourage their involvement in social issues. Through their online activism, Gen Z is challenging societal norms and striving to make a positive impact on the world.

However, critics argue that Gen Z’s sheltered upbringing has left them ill-prepared for life’s challenges. They claim that an absence of adversity is hindering their resilience. But amid these discordant notes, another perspective is emerging.

Parents, aware of the potential pitfalls of soft parenting, have taken steps to instil resilience in their children. They encourage them to see failure as an opportunity for growth, to take risks and to learn from their mistakes. Rather than shielding them from challenges, parents are empowering Gen Z to face them head-on, equipped with emotional intelligence and adaptability.

Gen Z’s softness is not a weakness, but a strength. It is a testament to their adaptive response to the complexities of the modern world. Their ability to navigate digital landscapes, connect and collaborate is unparalleled. Their emotional intelligence and empathy set them apart as they work to create a more inclusive and compassionate society.

As the world continues to evolve, the softness of Gen Z will undoubtedly remain a topic of debate. However, it is important to recognise that their soft nature is not the result of negligence or overindulgence, but a conscious choice made by their parents. The symphony of unconditional love, trust and empowerment resonates in the lives of Gen Z, driving them to embrace their individuality and make a positive impact on the world.

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