Nurse Judy on rebuilding trust in her marriage
Popular Online Nurse Judy, says rebuilding of trust in her marriage since her infamous cheating scandal hasn’t been easy but a work in progress.
Nurse Judy, already popular online for her act of service, was in the spotlight when reports surfaced that she had stepped out with a married person.
The supposed scandal led to her splitting from her husband of 12 years.
The couple then worked things out and got back together.
Looking back, she confesses that rebuilding the trust she once shared with her companion has been a daunting task. She adds that she is glad both of them are doing their best.
“Trust me it’s not easy but God has been faithful. Sometimes it is a struggle but the love and friendship surpasses all those small challenges around this that we face sometimes,”
Nurse Judy says one of the fundamental things they have been working on is improved communication, self-evaluation, and compromise.
“Improved communication has been key. Rebuilding trust is never easy but we doing it, with better conflict resolution skills, growth, and personal development. The consequences of the scandal were so brutal. I leant a lot. From effective communication in marriage, accountability, and appreciate my small family even more. My world fell apart when the separation happened.”
Despite the healing and attempting to fix her marriage back, Judy says she still struggles with several blogs that keep writing negative stories always evolving around the stale scandal that happened in 2021.
“Blogs are only obsessed with the bad side and not the good side of things. They never write about how good a nurse I am and my impact as a medical practitioner. But I’m so proud of myself, the number of DMs I receive from nurses who are grateful for helping them through the USA immigration process gives me so much joy. I have personally successfully guided 10 nurses from the start to the end of the tedious process and are currently in the USA too. I plan to do even more shortly to help more nurses,” she explains.
Nonetheless, Nurse Judy says she will never stop sharing her wins and losses with the masses.
“Because my major goal is to motivate someone who might be in a situation I have been in before, like someone who might be going through struggles I have faced before to know there is always light at the end of the tunnel. I have no shame in sharing my lows, my highs, my embarrassing moments because I know it impacts so many people positively.”
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