Eight things women are misled to believe the Nairobi man is into
The Nairobi man is a grossly misunderstood being. He is partly to blame seeing as he is a little lacking in the communication department.
There are a lot of things that the women in his life think are a turn on but aren’t. Here’s a look into some of them.
1. Working for it – Women think that being difficult and having men work hard at getting her into a physical or emotional relationship is good. She imagines that it gives her power. The Nairobi man is however into a genuine woman, one who doesn’t play games.
2. Waiting for him to make a move – True, two or three decades ago, men did all the chasing. It was what was socially accepted. Fast forward to 2016, the man is now more open to a woman who isn’t shy of the chase.
3. Baby talk – The Nairobi woman imagines that looking vulnerable will make her appear more feminine and attractive. So she takes to baby talk, pouting her lips and being indecisive. For the man on the other end of it, this is utterly off putting.
4. Complex lingerie every time – A good quality lingerie every once in a while is a turn on. The average man however doesn’t mind seeing you in your regular clothes every so often. He knows that you have them. You do not need to impress him.
5. Excessive make up and grooming – Yes, no man wants to go around with a woman who looks like she just got hit by a truck. What women do not know is that the average Nairobi man doesn’t prefer that woman who strives to look flawless all the time. For him, she comes off as fake or one who is trying too hard.
6. A stylish woman – The average Nairobi woman thinks that the Nairobi man wants a woman who is stylish. So she goes all out and invests quite a huge chunk of her earnings in the latest clothes. She is oblivious of the fact that the Nairobi man doesn’t want a woman who is out there blindly following the trends. He want a woman with some individuality.
7. That little extra weight – What every woman needs to know is that five kilos of weight that she has been obsessing about is probably unnoticed by most of the men that she comes across. True, there are men who discriminate on the basis of size and body weight but it’s not that serious for most men.
8. Knowing who your friend is dating – Yes, that kind of gossip should be left to your girlfriends. He probably zones you out every time you start gossiping.
