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Dear Kenyan celebs, here is why you should keep your body count private

By Elizabeth Ngigi September 28th, 2023 2 min read

Milly Chebby, Diana Marua, and Georgina Njenga have recently shared details about their “body count” online, referring to the number of sexual partners they’ve had.

Other Kenyan celebrities who have also revealed their body count include Kamene Goro, Terence Creative and King Kalala.

While some of their followers viewed this as content creation, others have voiced their disapproval of such discussions online, deeming them morally questionable.

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The critics argued that it is essential to carefully consider the consequences and potential ramifications before divulging such personal information on the internet.

So why is this issue such a delicate one?

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If you do choose to share personal information online, be sure to consider the potential consequences and think carefully about what you want to disclose.

It’s also a good practice to review and adjust your privacy settings on social media platforms to control who can see your posts and limit access to sensitive information.

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Ultimately, the decision to share your “body count” or any other personal information online should be made thoughtfully, with an understanding of the potential impacts on your life and the lives of others involved.

Here’s the reason celebrities should put an end to this behavior entirely:

  1. Maintaining privacy – One of the primary reasons is the importance of preserving one’s privacy. Personal sexual history is a deeply intimate and private matter that may not be suitable for public disclosure. Sharing this information can make individuals feel vulnerable and exposed, potentially affecting their self-esteem and the dynamics of their relationship.
  2. Avoiding judgment – Publicizing one’s body count can lead to judgment and criticism from others. Society often holds biased views on sexual behavior, and individuals may face unfair scrutiny or stigmatization based on their past experiences. Keeping this information private can protect individuals from unnecessary judgment.
  3. Preserving trust – In a relationship, trust is a fundamental pillar. Sharing personal and sensitive details about one’s sexual history can sometimes lead to doubts, insecurities, or jealousy. Couples may want to avoid potential trust issues that could arise from discussing their past encounters.
  4. Focusing on the present – Revealing body counts can shift the focus away from the present and the future of the relationship. Dwelling on past experiences may hinder the couple’s ability to build a healthy, trusting, and loving connection in the present moment.
  5. Preventing unnecessary conflicts – Discussing past sexual encounters can sometimes lead to disagreements or conflicts in a relationship. Couples may find themselves in disputes over their respective histories, which may not contribute positively to their partnership.
  6. Respecting individual choices – Every person has a unique journey, and choices made in the past shouldn’t define or judge someone’s character. Respecting each other’s choices, including those related to past relationships, is vital for a healthy and harmonious relationship.
  7. Promoting emotional safety – Maintaining privacy about one’s body count can contribute to a sense of emotional safety within the relationship. Knowing that certain aspects of one’s history are kept confidential can help individuals feel more secure and comfortable in their partnership.

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